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Post by mrsfawlty on Sept 2, 2022 12:03:36 GMT
Britney Spears has responded to her son Jayden’s remarks about missing her wedding to Sam Asghari, along with comments where he defended her father and former conservator, Jamie.In a new interview with ITV News, in addition to defending Jamie Spears and speaking about his mum’s mental health, Jayden revealed why he and his 16-year-old brother Sean Preston missed Spears’s June wedding to Asghari, a personal trainer and actor. “At the time it just wasn’t a good time to go,” Jayden said. “I’m not saying that I’m not happy for her. I’m really happy for them, but she didn’t invite the whole family, and then if it was just going to be me and Preston, I just don’t see how that situation would have ended on good terms.” During the interview, which is set to air on Friday (2 September), Jayden also defended his grandfather Jamie, who was Spears’s conservator for 13 years. At first he was just trying to be like any father letting her pursue her daughter’s dream of becoming a superstar but I did think maybe the conservatorship went on too long, probably why my mum was very angry about the whole situation that she was working for too long and I personally think she was,” Jayden said in the interview. “[My grandfather] doesn’t deserve all the hatred he is getting in the media. I love him, with all my heart,” he added. “He was just trying to be a father.” On Thursday (1 September), in a lengthy post on Instagram, Spears responded to her son’s comments, writing: “I’ve tried my best at being the best person I can be.
“Finally at 40 without the restraints of what my family did to me… I say to my son Jayden that I send all the love in the world to you every day for the rest of my life!!!! “ My love for my children has boundaries and it deeply saddens me to know his outcry of saying I wasn’t up his expectations of a mother… and maybe one day we can meet face to face and talk about this openly!!!!” she added. “ Maybe dear child YOU can explain why our family would do that to anyone!!!” BIB 1:Really? What about your own personal 'boundaries'? Such as reaching out privately to your kids and having family therapy to address the hurt that they've been holding onto while you pirouette around instagram almost naked(amongst many other things throughout their lives?BIB 2:Uhh, Britney, he's a 15 year old child, it's not his responsibility.
“If you could pause for a second remember where you came from,” she wrote. “I hope you can look in the mirror and remember… you are my child and always will be. Since Preston didn’t speak, I send my love,” she wrote. Responding to Jayden’s comments about her mental health, Spears wrote: “As for my mental health… my dear child understand you must learn to pick up a book and read one before you start to even thinking about my intellect sweetheart!!!!Stop and read what you're trying to articulate before posting such a word salad! You are making things worse by spewing bile and resentment towards your child who is a bright, intelligent boy, despite your parenting.
“If you can honestly sit back and say with your sensible brilliant mind what [grandma and grandpa] did to me was fine and call them not bad people… then yes I have failed as a mother and hopefully that’s a chat for you and your father to sit face to face and try to learn WHAT’S GOOD,” she added, referring to Jayden’s comments where he defended Jamie Spears. www.independent.co.uk/life-style/britney-spears-jayden-jamie-instagram-b2158160.html My close relative, okay, it's my brother, was diagnosed with Bipolar Disorder at the age of 25. During the early years he was carted off to hospital more than a dozen times in less than four years, several times with a police escort. He's been on the right meds and his condition has been stable for the past 19-20 years. During that time he still had full custody of his two kids, who both went on to study and obtain vocational qualifications in their chosen fields. It wasn't always easy but they have always known that even when my brother was struggling he was always their father and with the support of our extended family they don't just have one father but several proxy dads and mums. Britney needs to cut off all social media and stop listening to the stans or she will lose those boys. She then needs to have a properly organised family therapy programme so that she and those boys can start talking properly and begin to get along and start healing. It will be a long process but essential to the health and wellbeing of her and those beautiful boys. They'll always be there, long after Mr Money-Sucker-Upper has gone! She'll need them then, if she's still alive(gulp). |
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Post by no1novice on Sept 2, 2022 12:09:33 GMT
Sam Asghari = hypocrite!
And yes Britney, you have failed as a mother. Must be a real open wound to her that KFed + Victoria are better parents to her two kids than she is.
If she had any sense at all (and it is more than apparent that she does not). She would have worked hard to achieve mental stability, make rational and considered thoughts and actually learn the fucking difference between intellect and education.
She could have achieved so much in 15 years - I mean Kim Kardashian is a fucking lawyer (well, nearly!)
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Post by mrsfawlty on Sept 2, 2022 12:10:06 GMT
I'm not convinced that the conservativeship was 100% bad. Yes people got paid but given Brit-Brit attitude I'm not sure it was enough. We only have her side of the "they drugged me if I said no" conversation because for anyone else it's probably covered under HIPPA laws. Given her most recent rants posts etc I think it's fair to say that like a large number of mentally ill people, when they are on their meds & ok they are great but it doesn't take much to knock them off kilter. This. Been there, done it, seen it! |
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Post by sputnik on Sept 2, 2022 12:21:10 GMT
Why the fuck is kfed, the allegedly mature and sensible parent in the situation, letting a 16 year-old talk to the press about messy family drama and his mother’s mental health and other shit he can’t even begin to fully grasp at his age? I feel like this is Kfed and Jamie exploiting a kid to do their dirty work for them and probably coached him on what to say. It’s fucked up. Leave the kids out of it the way they have been for most of their lives. Is jamie spears’ hold on that family really that strong that this kid is defending the grandfather who at one point pretty recently kfed had a restraining order on because of physical abuse of these same kids?
Britney’s fucked up for sure and should know better than to get into a public argument with her estranged kids but the more I read about Jamie and Lynne and the rest of that family of leeches, and even kfed who I thought was the best one of the bunch until now but was probably just as invested in keeping Britney the cash cow sedated and rich, and the abuse that went in during the conservatorship the more I understand why she’s in the state she’s in. and why she is so angry and feels so betrayed by the very people who were supposed to lover her unconditionally and instead cared more about keeping the cash flowing than in getting her the help she needed to be able to get better and take control of her life again which should have been the only goal of the conservatorship in the first place but clearly wasn’t. Their actions probably led to irreparable harm. And now it’s going to be even harder for her to get the help she needs because after the conservatorship and the way she was kept basically hostage and exploited for cash and medicated by force, she’s not exactly in a good place to trust doctors or therapists, or surround herself with people who actually have her best interests at heart.
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Post by MsDark on Sept 2, 2022 12:25:01 GMT
This is getting ridiculously out of hand already. Obviously her new hubby is an idiot as well.
What's apparent: Her teenage sons have surpassed her in maturity. Even though they're still kids. I think it's time to have a little powwow about their phone/social media privileges though.
Also: I'm not sure I get this particular knock to KFed about the lawn vs being a baby daddy. Is the grass overgrown in KFed and Victoria's back yard? Does Sam mow his and Britters' lawn and keep it looking perfect? I'm guessing probably not. If anything they (meaning Britters) probably pay a groundskeeper. Which makes this sound even stupider. Although I'm sure Kevin and Victoria are doing okay, maybe they can't afford a groundskeeper. Make this make sense, someone.
At any rate, I'd rank raising 6 kids way above mowing the grass.
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Post by emkat on Sept 2, 2022 12:38:08 GMT
Omg these poor kids. This is so sad.
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Post by beeyotch on Sept 2, 2022 13:37:49 GMT
Yeah my heart goes out to those kids. Jesus. This should be in private family therapy, not in a public interview.
That is on both Kevin and Britney. They're 15 and 16, exposing them like this does not help them, I can't see how. It just deepens the fracture in their broken relationship with their mom by making it public.
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Post by no1novice on Sept 2, 2022 13:58:49 GMT
It was an "hour long special" by Daphne Barack (never heard of her).
"Appearing on Lorraine, broadcaster and journalist Daphne Barak revealed that it was not only Kevin but the whole family who felt ready to talk because they felt they had been hurt. She explained that the one-hour special - which would feature other interviews - would air at the end of the month and would explore Kevin's relationship with his sons Jayden and Preston.
"I and our team spent a lot of time with his family - he is not the only interviewee. It's not Kevin's version and actually we're not going to reveal many things because we feel it will be too hurtful. I don't think anybody meant to hurt these boys purposely and I'm sure Britney loves them and they come in to talk about her with a lot of love and they do love her, but basically nobody has thought about them.
"It's this story about the father and the boys and how he managed to successfully bring them up against the odds with all this drama going on and still ongoing as you see with the Instagram. So basically it's not Kevin vs Britney, it was not about her it was about his fatherhood and the whole family wanted it.""
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Post by holly on Sept 2, 2022 17:07:52 GMT
Really Britney, getting into it with her 14 y/o son on SM & insulting him as if she’s a teenager herself, just shows how emotionally stunted she is. She probably is emotionally somewhere between 14-16 y/o.
And her idiotic husband encourages this behavior. If she wants to talk about being used as a personal ATM, all she needs to do is look at who she’s married to.
She needs to quit airing all her crap out in public. Even if her kid said some stuff she doesn’t like, she doesn’t need to reply publicly & with such vitriol. She should’ve reached out privately & had the kids over to discuss how they feel, even better with a mental health professional on hand, but that would make too much sense.
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Post by notoriousmkg on Sept 2, 2022 18:07:39 GMT
Why the fuck is kfed, the allegedly mature and sensible parent in the situation, letting a 16 year-old talk to the press about messy family drama and his mother’s mental health and other shit he can’t even begin to fully grasp at his age? I feel like this is Kfed and Jamie exploiting a kid to do their dirty work for them and probably coached him on what to say. It’s fucked up. Leave the kids out of it the way they have been for most of their lives. Is jamie spears’ hold on that family really that strong that this kid is defending the grandfather who at one point pretty recently kfed had a restraining order on because of physical abuse of these same kids? Britney’s fucked up for sure and should know better than to get into a public argument with her estranged kids but the more I read about Jamie and Lynne and the rest of that family of leeches, and even kfed who I thought was the best one of the bunch until now but was probably just as invested in keeping Britney the cash cow sedated and rich, and the abuse that went in during the conservatorship the more I understand why she’s in the state she’s in. and why she is so angry and feels so betrayed by the very people who were supposed to lover her unconditionally and instead cared more about keeping the cash flowing than in getting her the help she needed to be able to get better and take control of her life again which should have been the only goal of the conservatorship in the first place but clearly wasn’t. Their actions probably led to irreparable harm. And now it’s going to be even harder for her to get the help she needs because after the conservatorship and the way she was kept basically hostage and exploited for cash and medicated by force, she’s not exactly in a good place to trust doctors or therapists, or surround herself with people who actually have her best interests at heart. Actually, Jayden sounds like the most measured and mature of the family members I've heard quoted so far. I didn't see a direct criticism by him of her parenting skills. But I think defending her father was seen as an indirect criticism. I'd like to know why Britney is allowing Asgari to talk to the press (via Twitter, or whatever) since he seems to be lagging about 5+ years behind Jayden in emotional maturity. |
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Post by firebrat1229 on Sept 2, 2022 18:14:18 GMT
I can't say im a big fan of the kids being compelled (maybe) to speak on this publicly, but he didn't say anything all that bad, right? He seems pretty eloquent for his age, and certainly about 20-times more eloquent than his mother.
The things she said in response? Holy shit. Talk about going low.
I get she's hurt - I'd be upset and hurt too, and probably even mad, even if it were true. But if I chose to respond publicly I surely wouldn't insult my own child.
But we know she's not capable of any introspection or of thinking of anyone but herself, so I guess it's not surprising. And now she's got her boytoy husband enabling and encouraging this behavior and speaking out himself, which is just making it worse.
She needs a goddamned PR professional but that would be admitting she's not perfect nor ever wrong, which she has never been able to do.
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Post by beeyotch on Sept 2, 2022 19:52:40 GMT
She doesn't want to admit anything she did wrong: that in 2007-2008 she was doing drugs left and right, driving recklessly, endangering her small children, and running around with grifters like Sam Lufti and Adnan Galib, who surely would have fleeced her for as much as possible if her parents and management hadn't started the conservatorship.
And now she's having it out with her own teenaged son on social media, showing herself to be the more immature and petulant of the two. I'm sure her people kept telling her to stop the Instagram posts, so she goes to Twitter? This mess is very much of her own making.
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Post by chaz on Sept 2, 2022 20:30:48 GMT
Oh FUCK OFF!!! These boys are being used as pawns by Jamie and kfed is too dumb to see it.
Not going to the wedding because all the family wasn't invited??? Of course they weren't fucking invited!!!! Jamie no doubt said 'If I cant go you cant go'.
Britney isn't the parent putting these boys on TV doing interviews. That's kfed, being used as a puppet by Jamie.
This really makes me understand the #freebritney movement. Yes shes somewhat weird but look at what she was up against!!!!
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Post by trixie on Sept 2, 2022 20:52:28 GMT
Yeah, she will always be the victim in her own eyes. I don't know what Kefed's motives were here, or why he is allowing Jayden to go back and forth publicly with her. I tend to think Jayden wanted to speak out so Kevin said ok. I don't think he's being used as a prop, he just seems the more outspoken of the two and from what he said, Preston is more introverted and hurt by his mother's behavior, in the past and now.
The saddest part (as others have mentioned) is Britney's behavior, publicly fighting with A 14 YEAR OLD! Her own kid, who has every right to vent but of course she can't let that slide. And badmouthing their father won't win her any points with those boys I'm sure.
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Post by no1novice on Sept 2, 2022 21:09:28 GMT
Yeah, she will always be the victim in her own eyes. I don't know what Kefed's motives were here, or why he is allowing Jayden to go back and forth publicly with her. I tend to think Jayden wanted to speak out so Kevin said ok. I don't think he's being used as a prop, he just seems the more outspoken of the two and from what he said, Preston is more introverted and hurt by his mother's behavior, in the past and now. The saddest part (as others have mentioned) is Britney's behavior, publicly fighting with A 14 YEAR OLD! Her own kid, who has every right to vent but of course she can't let that slide. And badmouthing their father won't win her any points with those boys I'm sure. I don't think that Jayden did go back & forth. I was quoting stuff that is supposedly in the hour long interview/special. I am guessing the media/daily-fail/tabloids are just making it sound like a special interview when he was talking as part of a main thing with his dad. I think that you are right - that the boys wanted to speak out & it's been done in this controlled environment. But Britney's response....... |
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