Britney Spears signs $15 million tell-all book deal

[no1novice]

Aug 31, 2022 22:59:34 GMT MsDark said:

Bless her heart.

She's not an introvert, that's for sure.

But since she probably doesn't even know what that word means, much less what would constitute a person being a introvert, I can't even be mad at this.

It is bullshit that she was mismanaged and controlled to this level. What it boils down to is that her parents were greedy.

I wonder if she'd been allowed (to continue) to fuck up her life if she'd have eventually learned some things the hard way on her own? Could be that she wouldn't even be here talk about it now if she had been allowed free reign.

I feel bad for her because her parents did her wrong from day one. As a result, pretty much everyone who's come into her life since has been some level of an opportunist looking to profit off her. She's probably even attracted to these types herself in that even with freedom she'll end up inadvertently choosing someone who will do exactly what everyone else has done in her life.

If she had been allowed to continue to fuck up her own life she would be dead and given that she was a danger to her own kids before one of her 5150 holds; one or both of her kids could be dead too.

Maybe she needs to make Insta posts about that?

08/01/2008 at 12:00 AM

Exclusive details about what happened last Thursday when all that sh*t went down at Britney’s house.

As you know, she showed up late for her deposition. After her deposition was a scheduled visit with the kids. My sources say she spent much of the time trying on clothes and playing with her hair “for an outing she was pretty excited about” in front of the children. She supposedly says this is their “favourite game”.

Britney was apparently in a rather foul mood well before the kids had to go back to KFed’s. She was checking her phone and madly texting back and forth. When told it was time for her booboos to leave, already agitated, she told her assistant to stall while continuing to make phone calls.

The court monitor was able to get SPF out of the house leaving Britney with Jayden James locked inside the Master Bath. So the police arrive but according to police insiders, they did not hear her threaten suicide. Not once. She was however screeching that she knew why they were there and kept repeating that they’re “her kids and she could do what she wants” with them.

Am told at no point did she say she would hurt them or hurt herself though she did keep with the refrain “Don’t f&cking tell me what to do!” , described as a spoiled teenager who “acts like a child and throws fits when she doesn"t get her way.” While being questioned, she petulantly answered “yes sir” or “ma’am” with a sneer.

It took the cops a while to gently coax her out of the bathroom. There was no violence, there was no kicking down of a door. Somehow they convinced her to come out and hand over the baby, at which point she then allegedly proceeded to dance around them, giving them flashes of her green thong and touching herself suggestively. After much pleading to put her clothes back on – to no avail – they called in female officers to handle her because, as you can imagine, they were now put in an even more uncomfortable position.

The lady cops arrive and Britney gets angry again. She didn’t like the “new vibe” so she decided to switch accents, starts speaking to them in a terrible British accent, babbling away, high off her tree. Yes…despite unofficial reports indicating otherwise, my sources say the cops are still convinced she was popping pills or “some kind amphetamine”.

Also – word is Sam Lutfi did show up at the house that night. When he arrived he supposedly started ordering everyone around and allegedly laid in to one of the housekeepers for “overreacting”. Apparently the housekeepers are terrified of him and allegedly told the police that he accuses them of stealing from Britney all the time, to the point where he routinely demands that they be searched. Throughout the incident, I’m told the housekeepers were repeatedly asking if they could go home for the day.
Speaking of housekeepers, contrary to what you might expect, the house is actually very clean. Like spotless. With the exception of her room. Her room is filthy because the housekeepers are apparently not allowed in. Food embedded in the carpet, smelled of smoke and stink, clothes everywhere, “more clothes than in a department store!” and “so many hats and sunglasses, you couldn’t walk without crunching on something.”

And while many officers did say they felt sorry for her, acknowledging she does need help for whatever may be ailing her, most also say she needs an attitude adjustment that doesn’t necessarily require professional intervention – more like a spanking.

“She’s rude. The way she speaks to people around her and people who work for her is rude. She expects people to jump when she asks. Even the cops.”

[o0amber0o]

You know what I find interesting about that 2008 article Nov posted is it mentions how when they finally got her out of the closet she started doing her ridiculous dancing to the police, it reminds me of one one of her rants from this year about how she is "pretty" and how she does everything everyone wants her to do "and she was pretty". It's almost like she's so warped into being a showboat that even back then she thought that she would be able to get out of trouble by just twirling around. Just twirl Brit and the masses will stop and cheer.

Sad.

[MsDark]

Yeah I'm calling bullshit on the whole "no drugs in my system" thing.

Who I feel sorry for most in this scenario (after the children, of course) is the housekeepers. Obviously Sam Lufti was doing any thieving going on, then turning around and blaming the housekeepers

I can totally believe that any room of hers not allowed to be touched by housekeepers would be filthy and messy af.

And all this happened with a court appointed monitor there!?  Geez louise.

[firebrat1229]

Sept 1, 2022 11:26:32 GMT o0amber0o said:

 Just twirl Brit and the masses will stop and cheer.

Sad.

Indeed.  And the further sad part is that the Free Britney nutters do exactly that.  

I feel bad for her - she has no self awareness, nor has she been taught how to have any real perspective on reality.  I know she's mentally ill, but goddamn.  It's a shame she clearly has no one in her corner who doesn't also want to profit off of her antics.  

She reminds me of a teenager who will deliberately and stubbornly do the opposite of what she's being advised to do, just to be, well, a teenager.  Makes sense since she's clearly stunted at about 14-16.  

A further clear indicator of this is the situation with her boys.  They've been on record that they're embarrassed of the nudity and antics on social media.  So what does she do? More nudie posts, of course - and the ones I saw last week seem to involve even less covering than before.  

I am all about freely expressing yourself, but jesus - can she just ONCE consider someone else's perspective or feelings besides her own?

  Maybe it's because I have two boys about the same age apart as her two boys.  They're grown men now but I remember them as teens and I had them young (I was mid-30s when they were 15-16), so I can very easily put myself in this scenario and vividly picture how they'd feel if I did something like this.  And I can damned sure tell you that if they said "oh my god, mom.  we are getting SO much shit about your naked pics on IG.  Please stop."  I'd.. fucking stop! 

I want to root for her and I do, even though I want to grab her and shake her by the shoulders most times.  She makes it so hard to feel bad for her sometimes.  
 

[Sarzy]

^ There's a saying that some celebrities are mentally stuck at the age they became famous. Definitely seems true in Britney's case.

[lindsaywhit]

I agree with everyone here, but that audio was still heartbreaking. She wants a do-over with a new baby, but the new husband is the only one that might benefit.

Her family seems pretty vile, but there doesn't seem to be any self-reflection or acceptance of responsibility for their own part in this mess. Still, the conservatorship was obviously needed at the time. Most people (myself included) were relieved when it started. It just seems there wasn't really an end goal of getting her the help she needed to grow out of the conservatorship. The goal just became "make more money, Britney."

Sad, and no obvious solutions or even paths to solutions that I can see.

[no1novice]

I'm not convinced that the conservativeship was 100% bad.
Yes people got paid but given Brit-Brit attitude I'm not sure it was enough.
We only have her side of the "they drugged me if I said no" conversation because for anyone else it's probably covered under HIPPA laws.

Given her most recent rants posts etc I think it's fair to say that like a large number of mentally ill people, when they are on their meds & ok they are great but it doesn't take much to knock them off kilter.

[sputnik]

I don’t think it was necessarily a bad idea but her fucked up family shouldn’t have been involved and there should have been more oversight and she shouldn’t have been cut off from the world like that.

[no1novice]

Sept 2, 2022 3:05:37 GMT sputnik said:

I don’t think it was necessarily a bad idea but her fucked up family shouldn’t have been involved and there should have been more oversight and she shouldn’t have been cut off from the world like that.

Yep I'd agree with that too.

[MsDark]

Sept 2, 2022 3:05:37 GMT sputnik said:

I don’t think it was necessarily a bad idea but her fucked up family shouldn’t have been involved and there should have been more oversight and she shouldn’t have been cut off from the world like that.

Definitely all this.

Her family should not have been allowed to continue to profit off her.  

[kittylady]

Aug 31, 2022 17:23:21 GMT funky said:

^ this could also be a tattoo. Maybe a chest piece?

I think a garter tattoo wrapped around your creamy thigh would be more appropriate.

Sept 2, 2022 3:05:37 GMT sputnik said:

I don’t think it was necessarily a bad idea but her fucked up family shouldn’t have been involved and there should have been more oversight and she shouldn’t have been cut off from the world like that.

I think that there should have been an end goal of at least trying to help her enough that she could eventually - possibly - be weaned off the conservatorship and back into independent living but that never seems to have crossed the Spears Family's mind at all. Their focus seemed to be holding on to every ounce of control they now had over her, along with every dollar that came with it.

If even half of the stuff Britney has alleged is true, then she's been treated appallingly. No matter what someone's mental health problems are they still deserve to be treated with dignity and respect instead of like a whipped workhorse. 

[trixie]

I dunno, we all saw her go off the rails, endangering her kids, pink wig, Sam Lutfi etc., so I didn't really think it was a bad thing that her family stepped in (if they hadn't, everyone would be saying "where is her family, why aren't they doing anything??) and I thought the conservatorship was being monitored by the court, a judge, lawyers, medical evaluators, and a financial co-conservator so it wasn't just Jamie being allowed to go hogwild with forcing her into servitude and stealing all her money. Really, that was going on with all the oversight? Again, I dunno. Maybe the condervatorship went on too long, and not with the purpose of getting Britney to the point she could function on her own, but I don't think it was totally unnecessary, and really who could've stepped in except her family?

[Sarzy]

Britney Spears has responded to her son Jayden’s remarks about missing her wedding to Sam Asghari, along with comments where he defended her father and former conservator, Jamie.

In a new interview with ITV News, in addition to defending Jamie Spears and speaking about his mum’s mental health, Jayden revealed why he and his 16-year-old brother Sean Preston missed Spears’s June wedding to Asghari, a personal trainer and actor.

“At the time it just wasn’t a good time to go,” Jayden said.

“I’m not saying that I’m not happy for her. I’m really happy for them, but she didn’t invite the whole family, and then if it was just going to be me and Preston, I just don’t see how that situation would have ended on good terms.”

During the interview, which is set to air on Friday (2 September), Jayden also defended his grandfather Jamie, who was Spears’s conservator for 13 years.
At first he was just trying to be like any father letting her pursue her daughter’s dream of becoming a superstar but I did think maybe the conservatorship went on too long, probably why my mum was very angry about the whole situation that she was working for too long and I personally think she was,” Jayden said in the interview.

“[My grandfather] doesn’t deserve all the hatred he is getting in the media. I love him, with all my heart,” he added. “He was just trying to be a father.”


On Thursday (1 September), in a lengthy post on Instagram, Spears responded to her son’s comments, writing: “I’ve tried my best at being the best person I can be.

“Finally at 40 without the restraints of what my family did to me… I say to my son Jayden that I send all the love in the world to you every day for the rest of my life!!!!

“My love for my children has boundaries and it deeply saddens me to know his outcry of saying I wasn’t up his expectations of a mother… and maybe one day we can meet face to face and talk about this openly!!!!” she added. “Maybe dear child YOU can explain why our family would do that to anyone!!!”

“If you could pause for a second remember where you came from,” she wrote. “I hope you can look in the mirror and remember… you are my child and always will be. Since Preston didn’t speak, I send my love,” she wrote.

Responding to Jayden’s comments about her mental health, Spears wrote: “As for my mental health… my dear child understand you must learn to pick up a book and read one before you start to even thinking about my intellect sweetheart!!!!

“If you can honestly sit back and say with your sensible brilliant mind what [grandma and grandpa] did to me was fine and call them not bad people… then yes I have failed as a mother and hopefully that’s a chat for you and your father to sit face to face and try to learn WHAT’S GOOD,” she added, referring to Jayden’s comments where he defended Jamie Spears.



www.independent.co.uk/life-style/britney-spears-jayden-jamie-instagram-b2158160.html

[mrsfawlty]

Sept 1, 2022 12:57:31 GMT Sarzy said:

^ There's a saying that some celebrities are mentally stuck at the age they became famous. Definitely seems true in Britney's case.

Reminds me of this.........

[no1novice]

She needs to quit posting & go to therapy (not that she will) with her kids & other family members

'Maybe dear child YOU can explain to me why our family would do that to anyone !!!! I helped your father who hasn’t had a job in 15 years … I assume it is easier for you guys not to have someone check on you to make sure you’re doing your homework !!!! I’m sure the standards of your dad smoking weed every day benefits your daily life at 15 and 16 to partake in a VERY COOL GENERATION !!!'

Her broadside went on: 'I completely understand your need to live with your father as I had to play the perfect role for 15 years for absolutely nothing. I’m so happy I was able to carry 4 tours, judge X Factor and WAAAY more … I did that for you. And Preston … I’m aware of your gift … I know you’re a teacher in my life and dear child I’m a teacher for you as well !!!'

As claim and counter claim between Kevin and Britney played out in public, two voices were missing – those of their children.

Now, speaking for the first time to documentary film maker Daphne Barak, Preston and Jayden reveal the truth about their relationship with their mother.

The interview will air on ITV news tomorrow.

There is 'no hate' Jayden stresses, but he admits 'it will take a lot of time and effort' to repair their fractured relationship.

'I 100% think this can be fixed. It's just going to take a lot of time and effort. I just want her to get better mentally. When she gets better I really want to see her again. '

Speaking directly to their mother, he adds: 'I love you a lot, I hope for the best for you. Maybe one day we can sit down like this and talk again.'


In November 2019 he took out a restraining order against his former father-in-law Jamie following claims of an altercation. But he believes Jamie 'really cares about his family' and the sentiment is one his sons echo, despite having been critical towards him in the past.

Jaden said: 'At first he was just trying to be like any father letting her pursue her daughter's dream of becoming a superstar but I did think maybe the conservatorship went on too long, probably why my Mum was very angry about the whole situation that she was working for too long and I personally think she was. She should have taken a break and relaxed.'

But he adds that Jamie 'doesn't deserve all the hatred he is getting in the media. I love him, with all my heart. He was just trying to be a father.'

He says his mother is 'ceasing to realise how much he cares for her' and cannot parry the manipulative Spears family Britney has portrayed with the relatives he knows.

'When I meet them in person they would not do such things,' says Jayden, describing his fun loving Uncle Bryan as someone who 'always wants to go and play ball in the park' and his grandmother Lynne, who he calls Memow, 'a really nice person'.

'Whenever I see her, she cares about me. They are not bad people! They know what we are going through now. They want our future to be what we want it to be. They just want to watch over us. Memow and Uncle Bryan are a good part of our lives. They have taught me how to deal with things.'

Not that he has always felt this sanguine towards them. In March 2020 Jayden, when questioned by fans on social media, described Jamie as a 'd**k.' Now, however, he says: 'Looking back, I regret saying all kinds of things. I really feel bad. Preston and I feel bad. We want to see him. I want to see him, sit with him next to the piano, talk about my future.'

Coming to terms with their mother posting pictures of herself naked online must have been embarrassing enough for the teenagers, but seeing themselves thrust into the public eye against their will is arguably more troubling, especially for Preston, who, Jayden says, 'doesn't like the cameras. He asked my mother not to post his photos, and she did it anyway. So it didn't go well.'


He, meanwhile, seems torn between thinking Britney has a right to broadcast her life and body on Instagram and wanting her to realise the ramifications on her family. 'Social media helps her… So if that's what she wants to do that's what she wants to do, I'm not going to hate her for that. At the same time, she should come to the realisation of whatever it is that stops her loving her family.

'It's almost like she has to post something on Instagram to get some attention. This has gone on for years and years and years and there's a high chance that this will never stop but I'm hoping for me that she will stop.'

Perhaps wisely, neither boy is consumed by social media. 'I do have an Instagram account but I barely go on it,' says Jayden, while Preston, he adds, is prone to 'overthinking' about what strangers will say about him. Instead, home 'is our safe place to process all the emotional trauma we have been through to actually heal. My family is helping me focus on myself and succeed.'

Growing up, it seems Preston bore the brunt of their mother's frustration.

'I think Mom has struggled giving us both attention and showing us equal love & I don't think she showed enough to Preston and I feel really bad for that. We've both been through so much pressure in the past that this is our safe place now, to process all the emotional trauma we've been through to heal, heal our mental state.'

At this point his voice trails off.

'If I complained, she went after him,' he resumes. 'I feel guilty, so I am there for him,' says Jayden, admitting that 'mom has treated me better.'

When he's upset, he reveals, he confides in his dad first, 'because he is always there, to put the pieces together. Or I will try going to my siblings, to get distracted from whatever it is … This family here has really helped me, not to worry about many things.'

When Britney's conservatorship was initially established after her breakdown in 2008 Kevin said a period of stability followed, while Jayden implies that their mother's behaviour became all the more difficult to deal with as they approached adolescence.

'We have been going back and forth for years. But when you become 10,11…,' says Jayden.

Despite his frustration, however, he harbours hope he and his mother will be reunited, while fearing the drama surrounding her life may never end. 'I know it has been going on for years.

There is a high chance it is never going to stop,' he says. 'It is so easy to be negative. It is so easy to dip into sadness and depression. It is harder to spread positivity.'