trixie
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Post by trixie on Aug 9, 2022 2:13:30 GMT
I think he pretty much said why he was doing the interview--to try to get across to her how all these nudie photos and instagram behavior are affecting their kids. To the point where the boys don't want to see her right now. Not that it will do any good, her response has been all me, me, me, not any acknowledge of her kids.
I wonder what the custody arrangements are now--last I heard it was 70/30 but with the conservatorship I think it was supervised by her handlers. Now she has no handlers so who knows what kind of crazy shit she might pull. Kevin is probably worried about that, I sure as hell would be. Might be a good thing the boys have chosen to distance themselves.
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Post by charmedhour on Aug 9, 2022 11:50:50 GMT
I think he pretty much said why he was doing the interview--to try to get across to her how all these nudie photos and instagram behavior are affecting their kids. To the point where the boys don't want to see her right now. Not that it will do any good, her response has been all me, me, me, not any acknowledge of her kids. I wonder what the custody arrangements are now--last I heard it was 70/30 but with the conservatorship I think it was supervised by her handlers. Now she has no handlers so who knows what kind of crazy shit she might pull. Kevin is probably worried about that, I sure as hell would be. Might be a good thing the boys have chosen to distance themselves. I would imagine if the boys don’t want to participate in side of visitation/custody it may go back to court. Both are old enough to express their feelings/concerns and have them considered. Thankfully, they’re also old enough to realize an unsafe situation and can extract themselves with a phone call, if needed, while with her. I don’t think she would be intentionally harmful, physically or mentally towards her kids. I just think she’s so stunted and hyper focused on what being in a conservatorship that she has little understanding or places no value on feelings/concerns of others. It’s about her freedom to do as she pretty much pleases now and continually dig at her family situation.
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Post by MsDark on Aug 9, 2022 12:02:46 GMT
Where things could go haywire is if she becomes that "fun" parent who allows them to do/have anything they want when they're at her house. And I could totally see her doing this. They're at that age where no matter how much they love and are close with their dad (and stepmom) whenever dad has to say no and set boundaries on something, they could end up running over to Britney's where whatever they want will be allowed. I can completely see this happening, as their mom is more like a peer than a parent. I hope the boys are mature enough to see beyond this.
Britney is so immature I could see her doing this just to get back at Kevin for not agreeing with everything she does, including these public tirades against her family. You can tell that (like a child) she already blames Kevin and the stepmom for her boys not wanting to come over instead of thinking it has anything to do with her behavior. In a way it would be good for those boys if she did get all wrapped up in this new husband although I definitely think another baby is the last thing she needs.
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Post by louiswinthorpe111 on Aug 9, 2022 14:33:45 GMT
^^Re: Charlie and Denise.
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Post by beeyotch on Aug 9, 2022 16:29:26 GMT
Where things could go haywire is if she becomes that "fun" parent who allows them to do/have anything they want when they're at her house. And I could totally see her doing this. They're at that age where no matter how much they love and are close with their dad (and stepmom) whenever dad has to say no and set boundaries on something, they could end up running over to Britney's where whatever they want will be allowed. I can completely see this happening, as their mom is more like a peer than a parent. I hope the boys are mature enough to see beyond this. Britney is so immature I could see her doing this just to get back at Kevin for not agreeing with everything she does, including these public tirades against her family. You can tell that (like a child) she already blames Kevin and the stepmom for her boys not wanting to come over instead of thinking it has anything to do with her behavior. In a way it would be good for those boys if she did get all wrapped up in this new husband although I definitely think another baby is the last thing she needs. They're at the age where they are embarrassed by their mom's nudes and surely get shit at school for it. I think that very typical embarrassment is saving them from more serious consequences that could arise from spending time with her. Plus, she isn't well mentally, so she might be weird to be around, might show her anger about the conservatorship around them. BUT. I also question the timing of Kevin's interview. It does seem like it would mainly help Jaime's case. However true and relevant an issue it might be, I don't see why it couldn't still be kept private and dealt with in family court. Maybe he thinks a public forum is the only way to make her pay attention? The best thing KFed's ever done is STFU about Britney and give the boys privacy, and this is not that. So I do side-eye his motivation on this.
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Post by charmedhour on Aug 9, 2022 16:44:50 GMT
Where things could go haywire is if she becomes that "fun" parent who allows them to do/have anything they want when they're at her house. And I could totally see her doing this. They're at that age where no matter how much they love and are close with their dad (and stepmom) whenever dad has to say no and set boundaries on something, they could end up running over to Britney's where whatever they want will be allowed. I can completely see this happening, as their mom is more like a peer than a parent. I hope the boys are mature enough to see beyond this. Britney is so immature I could see her doing this just to get back at Kevin for not agreeing with everything she does, including these public tirades against her family. You can tell that (like a child) she already blames Kevin and the stepmom for her boys not wanting to come over instead of thinking it has anything to do with her behavior. In a way it would be good for those boys if she did get all wrapped up in this new husband although I definitely think another baby is the last thing she needs. They're at the age where they are embarrassed by their mom's nudes and surely get shit at school for it. I think that very typical embarrassment is saving them from more serious consequences that could arise from spending time with her. Plus, she isn't well mentally, so she might be weird to be around, might show her anger about the conservatorship around them. BUT. I also question the timing of Kevin's interview. It does seem like it would mainly help Jaime's case. However true and relevant an issue it might be, I don't see why it couldn't still be kept private and dealt with in family court. Maybe he thinks a public forum is the only way to make her pay attention? The best thing KFed's ever done is STFU about Britney and give the boys privacy, and this is not that. So I do side-eye his motivation on this. I honestly have always felt Kevin has acted in the best interests of those boys. I think he’s a relatively decent guy and good dad. He may have been motivated by money to be with a British but I think the kids became his sole priority once she went off the rails. He could have easily taken a big chunk payout in the divorce. Instead he did alimony and child support. Which if he was truly a conniver probably isn’t as much as ago away lump sum.
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Post by beeyotch on Aug 9, 2022 17:51:26 GMT
Yeah, I mean I buy that his motivation is mainly for his boys. But I also wouldn't put it past him to also be motivated by Jamie possibly dangling something in front of him too.
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Post by no1novice on Aug 9, 2022 18:29:06 GMT
Or - as he knows the truth about her illness and the the boys don't want to spend any time with her....
Also VP said "what happens outside this house" is outside & doesn't reflect them so maybe some of it was being sick about how much shit they have to take every day from Brit-Brit's do-gooder army who don't actually have the slightest knowledge of her medical history + mental state?
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Post by MsDark on Aug 9, 2022 22:46:27 GMT
Yeah, I mean I buy that his motivation is mainly for his boys. But I also wouldn't put it past him to also be motivated by Jamie possibly dangling something in front of him too. I can't imagine what Jamie would have to dangle that would be of importance to him. Other than the fact that if Britney drops the suit Jamie wouldn't need to use her medical records to defend himself, which could result in them ending up in the hands of the public. And very likely might include things the boys don't know about their mom. Maybe even things that have to do with the boys themselves, as she still had access to them when she went off the rails. Kevin didn't get custody for nothing.
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Post by notoriousmkg on Aug 9, 2022 23:11:22 GMT
The irony of the boytoy making a statement about Federline, accusing him of being a moocher. Whose house are you Tweeting that from, Sam?
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Post by MsDark on Aug 10, 2022 3:06:56 GMT
It's good thing this kid is good-looking. He seems dumber than a box of rocks.
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Post by chaz on Aug 10, 2022 3:39:29 GMT
I thought during their custody trial the medical records were sealed as a medical condition affected both Britney and Jayden.
Wasn't it rumored she had HIV?
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Post by beeyotch on Aug 10, 2022 14:48:58 GMT
So I read further about that Daphne Barak interview [ Newsweek story], it's a longer piece, and a filmed interview, which I hadn't realized. I just read that in that interview KFed reveals he has been letting the boys spend time with Lynne and Bryan, and plans on having Jamie reunite with them once the restraining order against him expires. It's very Jerry Springer to me. So much so that I also read the full interview will no longer be aired because it was deemed "too hurtful." To Britney, I presume? I don't even know any more. www.mirror.co.uk/tv/tv-news/britney-spears-ex-kevin-federlines-27694682"Revelations from Britney Spears' family and ex-husband Kevin Federline's interviews won't be aired in full as they have been deemed "too hurtful", the journalist who secured the world exclusive has claimed. Kevin, 44, broke his 10-year silence at the weekend in an explosive interview in which he claimed his two sons have chosen not to see their mother Britney for months. However, Britney furiously hit back at the remarks made by her ex-husband, who she was married to from 2004 until 2006, after Kevin cited her nude posts on social media as the reason why her sons were reluctant to see her. She wrote in a statement on her Instagram Stories that she was "saddened" that Kevin was discussing her relationship with her children and that raising teenage boys is "never easy for anyone". She added: "I gave them everything… Only one word: HURTFUL…" Appearing on Lorraine, broadcaster and journalist Daphne Barak revealed that it was not only Kevin but the whole family who felt ready to talk because they felt they had been hurt. She explained that the one-hour special - which would feature other interviews - would air at the end of the month and would explore Kevin's relationship with his sons Jayden and Preston." She told host Ranvir Singh: "It's a one-hour special, which will be aired at the end of this month, so Kevin is not the only interviewee. I think he just felt - it's not really about Britney, it's about fatherhood in the eye of the storm. You and I reading everything about everybody in this family suing each other and the social media and accusing each other on Instagram and everything. "I think we tended to forget there are two kids in there that we haven't seen for years and now my husband and I have been with them for weeks. Somehow these kids not only turned out to be handsome but super talented, super creative, very friendly, and somebody is responsible to bring them up against the odds and away from the public eye - that is their father, Kevin Federline, who had full custody, and stepmother Victoria. "Basically, it was not just he who felt ready to talk, it was the whole family felt they were ready to talk because they have been hurt - and not by Britney, it's not her fault - but the situation, really, is very painful. During the interview we found out many things - that [the boys] didn't want to see their mother for now and I hoped they could heal." Quizzed on what she thought of Kevin's version of events about Britney and her parenting, she said: "I really feel for her and parenting is definitely difficult, especially with what she has been through. But we're talking right now about other people that have been hurt and it's not Kevin's version. "I and our team spent a lot of time with his family - he is not the only interviewee. It's not Kevin's version and actually we're not going to reveal many things because we feel it will be too hurtful. I don't think anybody meant to hurt these boys purposely and I'm sure Britney loves them and they come in to talk about her with a lot of love and they do love her, but basically nobody has thought about them. "It's this story about the father and the boys and how he managed to successfully bring them up against the odds with all this drama going on and still ongoing as you see with the Instagram. So basically it's not Kevin vs Britney, it was not about her it was about his fatherhood and the whole family wanted it." ... {I added the rest of the Mirror article} This seems like a concerted effort to publicize how all the family including her sons are on one side, and Britney's on her own. The message is, she's wrong in her perception, and we're just the maligned family who acted in her best interest.
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Post by lindsaywhit on Aug 10, 2022 17:33:27 GMT
That article makes the whole thing a little stinky. Why now? What possessed Kevin to open his mouth now? Is somebody holding something over him? Just seems strange to me that all of a sudden he's doing a documentary.
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Post by beeyotch on Aug 10, 2022 17:37:18 GMT
But it's not just him, it's the whole Spears family. I'm starting to think he just doesn't want to get in the middle of the family spat, as mentioned in the article, and the boys must want to spend time with them, including Jamie. They're just the less volatile, less crazy side when compared to Britney.
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