The Soul Sucker

[greysfang]

The Soul Sucker: I left this in the words of the tipster because it is her experience. I changed some descriptions to make it all a blind item.

He was my favorite actor. Now he makes my skin crawl. Connecting dots, I scoured too much info opening me up to the industry and this man in a sick, sad way. I regret my decisions born of pain, ever supporting such a vile creature.

Decades ago our A+ list, mostly movie actor was one of La La Land's highest earners. Under his surface gleam, there was a crusty grime, but he was constantly propped up by nostalgia. Fast forward to a few years ago, actor's awash in scandal, high and dry. Though signs pointed to his guilt, he survived. The more I knew about this abyss, the less I wanted to. High time to say: Hollywood was never the cool club, it's a snake pit. Last year, I snapped. Posted incriminating and angry deep dive about him I'd been culminating for ages. It was purely driven by mania at the time. Never meant malice in it. Patient zero. Couple days pass, the thing racks up views. Actor, in his failed renaissance era, tosses his two cents about a current event… funny how nobody expected him to open his mouth. When the infection spread, his majestic finale was retirement! Why did he kill his career? I took everything down within a couple weeks, in complete disbelief. Once recovered from that mental fatigue, I kept bringing up his behavior. There was a chance for exposure. Didn't have power or authority myself, but I could coax someone out who did, right? The universe was pointing towards him being outed. It never prospered. Instead psychological warfare often encircled me. I've combed details over and over. Came to a the conclusion he's a stalker. I'll never know how deep that rabbit hole goes, may have been before the retirement. Actor allegedly fights with detractors, interacts with, poses as fans, contacts, abuses and harasses women using burner accounts. I think of every message I've sent, every page I've viewed, every brutal coincidence, and shudder to think where he is, in all that noise. Even as I leave, it will haunt me for years to come. He is, no exaggeration, a soul sucker. Hope he gets his just desserts one day. The vastness laughs. Under these circumstances it's impossible to diverge the artist from art when he's smeared his work with other's blood. Far beyond disappointment, fear and loathing. A legacy swallowed by a lecherous creep in a black leather jacket. First and foremost he seems to derive sick thrill from his acts of sadism. He possesses a deeply oedipal hatred of the opposite sex. Treats anyone who isn't useful to him lower than dirt. F**king crazy. He was a poorie who worked his way up, so he perpetuated the cycle of abuse twice as hard. To get his way he tears people down. He's not dumb at all, or his PR isn't, and the allegations I stumbled upon that he's internet savvy only solidify it. Soul sucker might have brain cells to rub together, as ruined as he is by drugs, if he's abusing both women online and offline like I think he is. This guy was a comedian, they need to understand their audience. A joke is a frame job. So is a smear campaign. I actually find his persona fascinating, that's the only reason all this f**ked me up so bad. Someone like this could be brilliant and is yet... so insidious. Thought he was so talented, so insightful, until his evil peeked through. Yeah, yeah yeah, I can hear it, I have daddy issues. Hurts I can't watch him for longer than five minutes. part of my childhood gone too. Why did I like this weak loser with the ego strength of a jellyfish? I should've been able to detect he was a piece of s*it. My mistake. There's of information I am unable to obtain, gaps I can't fill. That's okay. I don't want to grind anymore. There were also a lot of avenues I didn't go down knowing that it would endanger me more. last thing I wanted is my face and name and location out there. this is me ending it. i rendered all my social accounts inactive. Someone said under one of my posts that he abused an alliterate actress. No idea to what extent he's stalked and what information he has. How long this has been going on. I contracted danger prickles in like late 2021 after I started researching more into soul sucker. I've always been cursed with a "sixth sense" when it comes to danger. the danger I've felt since 2021, and esp since March 2022, has not vanished yet. At the beginning of this I was an optimistic college girl. I'm also a media student with a pretty strong understanding of framing myself, and that's why I don't think a bulk of what I've gone through or seen is coincidence. At the end of the day I'm a young woman in my twenties who's typically alone. I concede because I can't protect myself. It wasn't in my right mind to fight $$ and power. Like the echelon blind girl I struggled with suicidality, self harm, trauma, etc, thought I was sooo self righteous. This has chewed me, scarred me up, and spit me out. Although I loathe this man, I never came from a place of malice in the first place with the deep dive thing, crushed under the weight of information, mental pain, and my pattern noticing brain. My mistakes shouldn't trail me forever. Insanity makes us all fools, but I'm not the main fool here.

[kittylady]

That's quite a rambling read that sounds like someone in a manic phase but that doesn't discount the possibility that there might be truth to it so here's the identifying points I could filter out:

- An actor/comedian.

- Started out/was at their peak some years ago ("propped up by nostalgia").

- Has declared themselves as "retired".

- Got hit with a scandal of some sort but somehow survived.


- A black leather jacket is a part of his usual look?

- Drug user.

- Grew up poor.

- Internet savvy (so possibly a popular or well known presence on social media platforms?).

- Worked with or dated an aliterate actress.



I'm going to go with Jim Carrey because:


- Actor/Comedian

- Biggest earning years were the 90's/2000's.

- Announced that he was as good as retiring from acting in 2022.

- The suicide of his then-girlfriend Cathriona White, caused something of a scandal thanks to the contents of her suicide note which included the lines "Before you, I might not have had very much but I had respect, I was a happy person. I loved life, I was confident and I felt good in my skin and was proud of most decisions I made, I met you, you introduced me to cocaine, prostitutes, mental abuse and disease. You did good things for me but being with you broke me down as a person Jim. I was promise Jekyll and instead I got Hyde."  There were also allegations that he'd used his money and status to illegally procure the prescription drugs involved in White's death, along with knowingly withholding information about having STIs.  Two lawsuits were brought against him by White's husband and mother but both were dismissed in 2018 with the agreement of both sets of attorneys (possibly settled out of court?).

- His family spent some time homeless and living out of tents/a van when he was a teenager.

- Dated January Jones.

[mostroop]

My first thought was Christopher Noth.

Jim Carey is a much better guess.

[notoriousmkg]

Jim Carrey sounds like a good fit - comedian, high earner going back to the 1990's, brilliant and insightful. Grew up poor. The only thing is that I had never heard a hint of him treating women badly. Or him having some big drug problem.

[sputnik]

definitely a manic phase and forgot that paragraphs exist for a reason. that shit hurt my head. kitty, thanks for having the patience to parse it out.

jim carrey is definitely a good guess.

[shellee]

Kitty, you rock! I think you got it.

[shellee]

Kitty, you rock! I think you got it.

[greysfang]

Mar 29, 2023 1:00:36 GMT notoriousmkg said:

Jim Carrey sounds like a good fit - comedian, high earner going back to the 1990's, brilliant and insightful. Grew up poor. The only thing is that I had never heard a hint of him treating women badly. Or him having some big drug problem.

Just a few years ago his Irish gf committed suicide because of him...allegedly.

[no1novice]

Shame there was a whole load of blackmail going on from her husband & mother to get Carrey to pay up.

[burnt_toast]

EDITED: OH WAIT! That's Depp! Ignore me.

Oh I think it's Carrey too ... the reference to fear and loathing is what got me. That's a phrase you rarely actually hear outside references to the book and/or movie.

[notoriousmkg]

Mar 29, 2023 19:15:22 GMT no1novice said:

Shame there was a whole load of blackmail going on from her husband & mother to get Carrey to pay up.

Yeah, he publicly described it as some kind of meritless extortion thing.  With regard to the note - she had apparently done 2 of these.  One was 2 years before the suicide.  That was the one where she alluded to drugs and disease, etc.  Then, crazily enough, they reconciled and were together for another 2 years.

The secret husband was described as some way to get her green card in the US.  Carrey has been a naturalized citizen since 2004, so I'm assuming that he just didn't want to get married again.

The drugs she killed herself with were kind of typical prescription pills (including Oxy) but not hers.

She seemed like  pretty emotionally vulnerable person.  One again, I have seen barely a hint of someone alluding to Carrey being abusive.  If someone had a career-long habit of being sadistic to practically every woman he worked with, I would tend to think we would have heard about it ad nauseum on the other site.

[daphodil]

Mar 29, 2023 21:08:35 GMT notoriousmkg said:

Mar 29, 2023 19:15:22 GMT no1novice said:

Shame there was a whole load of blackmail going on from her husband & mother to get Carrey to pay up.

Yeah, he publicly described it as some kind of meritless extortion thing.  With regard to the note - she had apparently done 2 of these.  One was 2 years before the suicide.  That was the one where she alluded to drugs and disease, etc.  Then, crazily enough, they reconciled and were together for another 2 years.

The secret husband was described as some way to get her green card in the US.  Carrey has been a naturalized citizen since 2004, so I'm assuming that he just didn't want to get married again.

The drugs she killed herself with were kind of typical prescription pills (including Oxy) but not hers.

She seemed like  pretty emotionally vulnerable person.  One again, I have seen barely a hint of someone alluding to Carrey being abusive.  If someone had a career-long habit of being sadistic to practically every woman he worked with, I would tend to think we would have heard about it ad nauseum on the other site.

He has a tendency to pick (or be picked by) emotionally troubled women as well. At least that's what my memory (faulty) is dredging up. 

[trixie]

He seems like a very strange man, to say the least. I've enjoyed some of his stuff but he's also a little out there for me. (Did anyone see his show Kidding? Talk about a weird character) I always wondered about his short marriage to Lauren Holly (if someone is married for less than a year there's something major going on) but forgot about Renee Zellwegger. (another one with a short-lived marriage herself) Most of his relationships seem short-lived. He's probably one of those love-bombers and then when they see the real him they run for the hills. And the thing with Emma Stone? That's just plain stalkerish. And he apparently insulted Margo Robbie while appearing on Graham Norton saying “You’re really something, Margot Robbie. It’s incredible you got as far as you have with your obvious physical disadvantages. That’s pure talent there.” What a creep.

Two marriages and a love that ended in tragedy: Inside Jim Carrey's turbulent relationships.

This post deals with suicide and might be triggering for some readers.

Jim Carrey’s best known as a Hollywood funnyman with a talent for being able to pull… unusual facial expressions, but the 58-year-old has also dated a number of high profile women.

From two marriages to a string of famous actresses, to his tragic relationship with makeup artist Cathriona White, Carrey’s personal life has been rocky.

Carrey first married actress and waitress Melissa Womer in March 1987, and six months later their daughter Jane Erin Carrey was born. Carrey became a grandfather at 47 when Jane and husband Alex Santana welcomed their first child, a son named Jackson Riley, in February 2010.

After eight years of marriage, they were divorced in 1995.

A year later, he married his Dumb and Dumber co-star Lauren Holly.

"You don’t have to be a rocket scientist to figure out what happened," his first wife Womer told The Spokesman-Review following the announcement of their divorce. "I personally think she may have been involved a lot sooner than they are letting on."

Regardless, Carrey's second marriage to Holly did not last, with the pair splitting after less than a year of marriage.

In 1999, Carrey began a short-lived but high-profile relationship with his Me, Myself & Irene co-star Renee Zellweger.

The movie’s director told People magazine, Carrey fell for her immediately but she didn’t return the feelings until the end of the shoot.

Later, Zellweger told the same publication her life with The Grinch actor was “boringly wonderfully normal”.

Carrey told Entertainment Weekly his girlfriend was “absolutely a gem of a human being”.

In December 2000, Zellweger and Carrey's publicists confirmed their split saying that the couple "wanted different things".

At the time, National Enquirer claimed the split was fuelled by an ultimatum from Zellweger who wanted a wedding date to be set. But she rubbished the rumour, telling Cosmopolitan in 2003 that they were never engaged.

He was linked to actress January Jones, Russian dancer Anastasiya Volochkova and Danish model Anine Bing after Zellweger, but each was shortlived.

Perhaps the most high profile of Carrey's relationships came in 2005 when he met model and TV host Jenny McCarthy.

In 2007, McCarthy spoke about Carrey's support of her young son Evan, who was born in 2002 and diagnosed with autism in 2005.

Both McCarthy - who has been described as the United States "most prominent purveyor of anti-vaxxer ideology" - and Carrey believe the incorrect, debunked idea that vaccines cause autism.

Throughout their relationship, Carrey became a vocal advocate for McCarthy's autism activism and McCarthy embraced Carrey's passion for New Age spirituality.

To the outside world, and even to their family and friends, Carrey and McCarthy projected a happy relationship. So when they announced their split on Twitter in April 2010, it shocked even those closest to them.

Jenny and I have just ended our 5yr relationship. I'm grateful 4 the many blessings we've shared and I wish her the very best! S'okay! ?;^>

— Jim Carrey (@jimcarrey) April 6, 2010

According to an 'old friend' of Carrey's, the differences in their personalities may have taken its toll.

"She is really ‘Go get ’em!’ when it comes to publicity," the source told People. "And Jim is nothing like that."

Another source said: "Jim can run hot and he can run cold. He is someone who desperately needs to be with someone, then just as desperately needs to be alone. But at the same time, he can be a very loving, very compassionate guy."

In 2011, Carrey released a bizarre video professing his love for actress Emma Stone. Then 49, he told a 23-year-old Stone that he wanted to marry her, have "chubby little freckle-faced kids," and have sex with her every day for the rest of her life.

From 2012 to 2015, Carrey had an on-off relationship with Irish makeup artist Cathriona White.

According to TMZ, they broke up in May 2013 before rekindling their relationship 18 months later.

They were last spotted in September 2015. Nine days later White died by suicide, aged 30.

Carrey was a pallbearer at her funeral, and in a statement said he was "deeply saddened by the passing of my sweet Cathriona."

White’s estranged husband Mark Burton and her mother, Brigid Sweetman, later sued the then-55-year-old actor, alleging that Carrey had provided illegal drugs to her and gave her sexually transmitted diseases, which contributed to her mental anguish.

"It would be easy for me to get in a back room with this man's lawyer and make this go away, but there are some moments in life when you have to stand up and defend your honour against the evil in this world," Carrey said in response to the filing.

"I will not tolerate this heartless attempt to exploit me or the woman I loved. Cat's troubles were born long before I met her and sadly her tragic end was beyond anyone's control. I really hope that someday soon people will stop trying to profit from this and let her rest in peace."

Carrey filed a countersuit claiming the lawsuits were an attempt to exploit him, and that White had attempted to extort him with false allegations that he passed on multiple STIs to her.

The lawsuit was dismissed on January 25, 2018, and attorneys for both sides confirmed there would be no further legal proceedings.

With his legal battle behind him, Carrey said he was glad to be moving on.

In 2018, the actor told Radio Times he liked to keep to himself.

"You could describe my home life as an isolated life. I spend a lot of time by myself but I like being by myself, so it’s okay. That might be strange to some people, but I enjoy it."

But even so, Carrey said he was still putting himself out there.

"I love to read and I enjoy painting and working on sculptures," he said of his free time. "And I date."

Last year, Carrey had a relationship with actress Ginger Gonzaga, 35. The couple met on the set of his TV show Kidding, and made their red carpet debut at the 2019 Golden Globes Nominees Celebration in January 2019.

US Weekly reported they split in October.

Most recently, the actor has made headlines for his bizarre, inappropriate comments to Margot Robbie on The Graham Norton Show and in an interview with Heat magazine reporter Charlotte Long as part of his promotional tour for Sonic The Hedgehog.

www.mamamia.com.au/jim-carrey-relationships/

[kittylady]

Mar 29, 2023 21:08:35 GMT notoriousmkg said:

Mar 29, 2023 19:15:22 GMT no1novice said:

Shame there was a whole load of blackmail going on from her husband & mother to get Carrey to pay up.

Yeah, he publicly described it as some kind of meritless extortion thing.  With regard to the note - she had apparently done 2 of these.  One was 2 years before the suicide.  That was the one where she alluded to drugs and disease, etc.  Then, crazily enough, they reconciled and were together for another 2 years.

The secret husband was described as some way to get her green card in the US.  Carrey has been a naturalized citizen since 2004, so I'm assuming that he just didn't want to get married again.

The drugs she killed herself with were kind of typical prescription pills (including Oxy) but not hers.

She seemed like  pretty emotionally vulnerable person.  One again, I have seen barely a hint of someone alluding to Carrey being abusive.  If someone had a career-long habit of being sadistic to practically every woman he worked with, I would tend to think we would have heard about it ad nauseum on the other site.

Are you sure about that? Look at how long Cosby got away with drugging and raping women thanks to his star power and vicious legal teams and what a massive shock it was to discover that America's Favourite Dad was a rampaging rapist arsehole.  Then look at Harvey Weinstein. It was commonly accepted that actresses were willingly performing sexual favours to get roles out of him and being seen wearing a Marchessa dress was enough to earn you a snarky side eye and marked down as one of "Harvey's Girls" who was fucking her way to the top. But then the #MeToo storm broke and dozens upon dozens of women, everywhere from A list to Z list to not-even-on-the-list, were finally able to be heard and tell the world that Weinstein was a monster.

And the sad truth is that for every Cosby and Weinstein who gets outed and spends time behind bars there's many, many more who either got off lightly by keeping their heads down and waiting for it to blow over (see Louis C.K for example) or still had enough pull to keep their names out of the press or chose their victims well and didn't abuse on the massive, almost industrial scale that Cosby and Weinstein did.

[notoriousmkg]

The Cosby rumors were around for a long time. And he had already settled a suit with someone. I do think that Hannibal Burress basically broke the dam (the willingness for more victims to come out) when he talked about it in his routine.

I thought Weinstein's behavior was fairly common knowledge. Probably due to the infamous Lainey story that came out 5 years before Ronan Farrow's story. And the sting operatin that had been done by Cy Vance in NY that did not result in charges. Plus the comment that Courtney Love made.

I also think Trixie's posted story is pretty supportive of the fact that he is not an abusive guy - more likely, depressive and just mopes from one relationship to the next. Maybe if he had dated Sharon Stone for a bit, we would have gotten the truth, since she was willing to say that dating Dwight Yoakum was like eating a dirt sandwich.

Once again, I do think the blind is targeted at him, but I don't see where there is evidence of serial abusive, sadistic behavior as the story claims. Is there anything about it in Lipstick Alley?